em-ey z kuotez

Em-ey z Kuotez’--“Open rebuke is better than secret love.”

(Proverbs 27:5)

          Love is the greatest feeling we could ever feel. The love coming from our family, friends, peers, our special someone, and the love from God makes us humane and makes us accept the things we could change and could never change. It is love where we begin to live our life and hold on. This would be and em-ey zing feeling!

          If there is love, there is pain. It is true but eventually pain enveloped with love is a way of rebuking a person without hiding anything. Open rebuke is confronting a person to let them know that what they do is already a sin. You are preventing the person to stop sinning again and again. You control the evil in the actions and words of that person to ensure that you have done a good one for them.

          A lot of people say that if we love a person we tolerate what they do but this verse doesn’t say so.  Confronting in love, can be the most loving thing we can do for someone. If we will hide things from a person, that person will have hatred, will have separation, and eventually remove the nurtured friendship. It is a sin of we will not say things at a certain moment because you are deepening the pain of the person.

          It is better to tell the truth than a bunch of lies in front of the person. If they are hurt it is not anymore your problem at least you told the truth about them. Pretending, faking, and hiding are kinds of secret love because you wanted the person to become more evil. These kinds of secret love create a not so good relationship among people.

          The verse states that overlooking an offense may keep and unite friendship or relationship with different types of people, but one who takes advantage of such gracious act will cause broken homes and broken hearts. Let us learn from this em-ey z kuoted kuotez!

Em-ey z Kuotez’ REFLECTIVE STORY:

          Helen and Beth are best of friends since college. They were always together no matter what. Helen is a type of girl that is very sophisticated and gets what she wants. She is rich and a social type of person. She is an out-going person and doesn’t know her priorities. Eventually during her 4^th year college days, she changed into someone you would never think about her. She turned away from the sophisticated girl to a simple one because of someone she loved.

          Beth on the other hand, is a simple girl. She does her things according to her priorities. She’s not a type of a sophisticated girl but knows how manage her time during her college years. She always assists Helen just to pursue both their goals—to finish their studies.

          Beth graduated first and Helen was left out because of her behind subjects. The following year, Helen graduated and settled down in the Northern Province. Beth and Helen loosed contact but sometimes they communicate only with Hellos.

          At the end of the year, Helen’s mother died of lung cancer and her husband had a third party. She had the most painful year that time and so Beth is always there comforting and helping her to remove all her stresses. She overcomes everything after 8 months without communicating with Beth.

          Beth has always been waiting for her but she never did. Until one time, she texted Beth that her husband still continues to have a third party and needs to get out of her place and live with her. Beth eventually blurted out that she has her own life and she cannot accommodate her the way she wanted to. She wanted Helen to be independent and stand at her own feet.

          This will be the em-ey zees challenge to tell the truth with love!